Thanks to the COVID-19 and lock-downs and quarantines and the #stayhomestaysafe campaigns, I was allowed to sit down and go into deep self-introspective sessions, this led me to discover that I have been suffering from impostor syndrome for most of my life. I have always known that there was something that not quite right about how I’ve … Continue reading Do you also suffer from the impostor syndrome?
This is becoming more and more common, modern African girls desire marriage less and less, some women would even say that they would prefer having children and raising them on their own. Why is this so? I happen to be one of those girls, I have always wanted to be a mother, motherhood has always … Continue reading African girls who do not desire marriage
Even though self-care is becoming a norm, this concept is still quite foreign to African girls, this is what I am going to de-bunk on this post. Conversations of self-care are becoming more and more common globally, well, at least on the internet. We live such high stressful lives that we had completely forgotten about … Continue reading Reasons why self-care is a radical act for African girls
So if you have made it this far, you are probably wondering what the fuss is all about, who or what is Ntji's Closet and why should I even pay attention to her? In answering the question asked in the title of this blog, my closet is where I keep my most valuable things. This … Continue reading Who is Ntji and what is in her closet ?